To awnser my own question:
In Bright View, goto 'Devices', select the node, edit node, goto settings tab and select 'Roles'. You will see greyed out slurmclient and slurmsubmit roles. Click 'Add' and select the slurmclient role. You have to set the 'WLM cluster' and 'Queues' settings.
This will override the settings provided by the overlay for this node.
The socket:cores:threads settings are found in 'POWER SAVING ALLOWED and 12 other parameters'